Old Timers on this forum, help me out with the ladies

[gotti911]

I'm starting to go to college in the spring as a junior. I went to junior college and the pickings were slim, actually no pickins at all. It's time to pick up hot girls 8,9, and 10s in college.

Help me sharpen up my flirting skills with the ladies. I mean how do I approach a girl and what do I say. I need to know how to fluff talk.
I'm the kind of guy that doesn't buy girls things or compliment them because guys that do are chumps and are unattractive. I'm not some sort of hopeless romantic that you see on TV. I want to seduce women. I'm a real man that flirt with all kind of girls at the same time and it's my way or the highway.

My approach is to be cocky/funny by teasing them and saying clever things. Share your secrets old timers.

[Doomfury]

I'm starting to go to college in the spring as a junior. I went to junior college and the pickings were slim, actually no pickins at all.

Help me sharpen up my flirting skills with the ladies. I mean how do I approach a girl and what do I say.
I'm the kind of guy that doesn't buy girls thing or compliment them because guys that do are chumps and are unattractive.
My approach is to be cocky/funny by teasing them and saying clever things.

"Don't give them any nicknames like Jumbo or Boxcar ... and always get receipt ... makes you look like a business guy."

[gotti911]

"Don't give them any nicknames like Jumbo or Boxcar ... and always get receipt ... makes you look like a business guy."

I'm business major also. I forgot to mention I tuck in my shirts casually brings out my traps and shoulders. So I stand out in a good way.

I call them cupcakes only if they compliment me first.
Hot Girl: you look good.
Me: not to bad yourself cupcake (she has big breast).

[darklighter1]

Keep callin them honey, chicky or baby cakes. They love that...Cupcake is good! Stay with that one awhile.

[Ragnorak]

Just remember not to over do it with nicknames. Otherwise they make assumptions that you treat all woman the same and from that they may conclude that you do indeed 'chase' a lot of women.

[gotti911]

Just remember not to over do it with nicknames. Otherwise they make assumptions that you treat all woman the same and from that they may conclude that you do indeed 'chase' a lot of women.

you should like a young fella, I want old timer talk.

I don't use nicknames often or not at all. So tell me how to fluff talk cooly or end up there (what are you doing here, what do you do, etc) but in a cool old timer way

[hungarianstud]

bust out the accent. The woman love that. Kind of talk like sean connery, haha.

[gotti911]

bust out the accent. The woman love that. Kind of talk like sean connery, haha.

thats what I'm saying old timer (10,000 posts). Use the accent, how about an Asian accent? Is that a no no or a go go

[hungarianstud]

You know what they say.

"What can you get for ten dolla?"

"Any chink you want!"

Ok i am just jokin. I am not racist in any manor i just don't like anyone equally. haha lol
But seriously whoever came up with that sayin, thats funny.

[ThaSpitefulWun]

I think someone should direct Nymph to this post... she could give you some good advice since she is a ten herself...

[Inspector_XXX]

So tell me how to fluff talk cooly or end up there (what are you doing here, what do you do, etc) but in a cool old timer way

In a "cool old timer way"? Tell her if she'll come down to the malt shop with you, you'll buy her a nice sasparilla while you snap your suspenders.

Seriously, cocky and funny works fine. You're better off just being cocky and funny and doing it your own way instead of trying to copy someone else's lines. In the end, it really doesn't matter what you say, it just matters how you say it.

[hungarianstud]

Try this one.
Nice shoes wanna fuck!?

rofl

[tommykhu550]

also, remember that only 1 type of thought will dominate your mind. which one will you choose? positive or negative thoughts? that'll keep you on track to get plenty of babes.

[funk]

In a "cool old timer way"? Tell her if she'll come down to the malt shop with you, you'll buy her a nice sasparilla while you snap your suspenders.

lol oh that's good

[gotti911]

also, remember that only 1 type of thought will dominate your mind. which one will you choose? positive or negative thoughts? that'll keep you on track to get plenty of babes.

Oh yeah be a postive person yet I could insult them by teasing them. Check out the cocky/funny pick up.

Girl at mall with Ambercombie and Fitch bag
Me: do you shop at AF for the clothes or for the pictures of the guys
Girl: Both
Me: I prefer to shop at a higher instution like Wal-Mart
Girl: Oh I don't shop at Wal-Mart
Me: (looking at her feet) not even those shoes?
Girl: No, not these shoes
Me: Target???
Girl: I got them at Neiman Marcus

[gotti911]

In a "cool old timer way"? Tell her if she'll come down to the malt shop with you, you'll buy her a nice sasparilla while you snap your suspenders.

Seriously, cocky and funny works fine. You're better off just being cocky and funny and doing it your own way instead of trying to copy someone else's lines. In the end, it really doesn't matter what you say, it just matters how you say it.

whats a sasparilla, is it like a corsage? This ain't prom.
You're absolutely right about not being scripted.

[gotti911]

I'm going to start off small at first to build my confidence. I'm still a shy person.
I'm going to hit on average looking girls (hot girl 6) and build my way up to HG9 saying that I won't get rejected along the way.

[Inspector_XXX]

whats a sasparilla, is it like a corsage? This ain't prom.
A sasparilly is (I think) a refreshing drink that was popular about 100 years ago. You wanted to sound like an old-timer.

I'm going to start off small at first to build my confidence. I'm still a shy person.
I'm going to hit on average looking girls (hot girl 6) and build my way up to HG9 saying that I won't get rejected along the way.
No, you will get rejected. You will get rejected a lot. You could look like Brad Pitt and talk like Sean Connery and you'd still get rejected a lot.

The important thing is to stop caring about whether you get rejected or not. If a girl rejects you, walk away and move on to the next one. She doesn't matter. She's a visitor in your life. If she rejects you and thinks you're a dork it doesn't make a goddamn bit of difference to you.

Stop caring whether you get rejected or not. Just do it, over and over.

[ÜberDork]

One good way to build confidence is to flirt/talk with/start conversations with every--and I mean every--woman (18+ YO) you meet for the next 30 days. Not necessarily 'hit' on them but finding ways to connect with women.

That way you can find your own unique style, hone it, and then build ways to start conversations naturally being yourself. If you practice with every woman you meet, in elevators, waiting in line at Starbucks, etc, etc, you will get over 'rejection' and when you get adept with any woman, then you can focus on the type of women that you like.

Does that make sense?

[gotti911]

One good way to build confidence is to flirt/talk with/start conversations with every--and I mean every--woman (18+ YO) you meet for the next 30 days. Not necessarily 'hit' on them but finding ways to connect with women.

That way you can find your own unique style, hone it, and then build ways to start conversations naturally being yourself. If you practice with every woman you meet, in elevators, waiting in line at Starbucks, etc, etc, you will get over 'rejection' and when you get adept with any woman, then you can focus on the type of women that you like.

Does that make sense?

yes it does, like 50 approaches in 30 days. I'm not ready to do that yet, I'll do that once school starts for me on January where I could start off a conversation to girls that I don't know. I need to be more clever when talking to the ladies outside of school which in out of my comfort zone.

Approach forumula: have a swagger, let women know that you're the alpha male, be confident, cocky/funny, be unique, and make strong eye contact.

A chump would: listen to their problems, follow them, be attach to one girl, ask for their number, hold their things, and buy them things.

[funk]

you're trying way too hard and missing the main point: be yourself

[hungarianstud]

A chump would: listen to their problems, follow them, be attach to one girl, ask for their number, hold their things, and buy them things.

Dude this is not called a chump! This is called a gentlemen.

[ÜberDork]

As Dr. Phil would say, "You Either Get It or You Don't".

[durcam]

Try this shit

http://www.sputtergutter.net/forums/showthread.php?t=11353

...........:065:

[BigDaddy_GFS]

Well, observation is a good place to start.
What are they doing when you first spot them? Eating ice cream? Browsing in a bookstore? Field-stripping an M4 assault rifle w/M302 grenade launcher?

Whatever they're doing, that may be good place to start.

"Is that Rocky Road? Oh, really? That's good, but I prefer Buttered Pecan myself."

or

"Is that the new Harry Potter book? My nephew loves Potter. Do you think he'll die in the last entry?"

or

"M4, eh? Sweet piece of hardware. I've got a Dragunov at home. Wanna see it?"
lol

[RAZORMAID]

I don't believe what I'm reading here....

[hungarianstud]

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I hope this helps ya out gotti911. :065: lol

[ÜberDork]

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You could also try Speed Seduction by Ross Jeffries.

He is pretty famous here in Southern California for his courses on how to seduce women. (www.seduction.com)